Learning to Forgive

In our life, we have to learn to forgive people that are making mistake isn't it ? In my point of view, forgiveness is the renunciation or cessation of resentment, indignation or anger as a result of offense, or any disagreement or mistake that we often face in life. Why ??? Have I ever wonder why is all this happening in our daily life? The answer is simple. This is because human often making mistake. They do not realize that they are hurting people sometimes. Forgiving someone needs a really big courage and I often wonder do I actually have to courage to do that actually. I am scare and feel betrayed often. I just want to find a mirror and reflect myself. Which one is harder? The be forgiven or to forgive someone? Does an apology actually solve all this problem? I do actually feel I am better after waking up the next day but I feel there is something strange with me. I do not want to rewind back all the problems that is going on in our life. But what happen actually ? I think GOD is fair sometimes. The things that you never thought that you want to hide but it end up appearing in your life isn't it? Life is like that. Full of challenge. Here is the list of quote that I want to share with all my friends today. - You never know what you have until you lose it forever, and once you lose it, you can never get it back. - My heart was taken by you.... broken by you... and now it is in pieces because of you. Thank you. - Love is like falling down... in the end you are left hurt, scarred, and with a memory of it forever. I made a choice to finally let go, because I can't stand the pain, it's time for my last tear to fall and smile again. I cried today... not because I miss you... or even wanted you... but because I realized I'm gonna be all right without you. This is all the quotes in my heart right now. Perhaps I am in the deep deep bottom of my feeling but I feel its alright. I don't feel sad actually. I feel strong and know that all this is not going to make me another person. I am always staying by my true self all the time. This is just part and parcel of my life. I am not going to be affected by all this small matters. When I looking at myself again, I am a naif girl last time. HAHA. Growing up is really tough process and I am still going through it. Thank you GOD for letting me go through all this life learning process. I tried my best to handle my emotion well. Just give me some time to go through all this miserable stuff and I am going to be a better one . Hopefully soon. All the best everyone. Life peace and I hope that everyone is in peaceful life. Love from Peggy Chai.